How to Have Date Night at Home After Kids Are in Bed?
For many couples with kids, it seems that date night is next to impossible. It’s hard to find a reliable babysitter nowadays and schedules seem to always get in the way.
If you and your partner can’t go out on a proper date, you can still have alone time together at home while the kids are in bed. We’ll give you several date ideas you can do at home.
How a Date Night Can Help You Reconnect with Your Partner
Before we jump into date night ideas, it is important to emphasize the importance of having a date with your partner.
In between household chores, work, and taking care of the kids, it seems that a date night should be the least of your priorities. However, setting aside some time to bond with your significant other without your kids around is a great way to strengthen your relationship.
When you have time alone with your partner, you build better communication. You would be able to show your affection and make your partner feel that they are not taken for granted. Doing enjoyable activities together will also help you both to de-stress.
4 Quick Tips Before You Start Your Date Night
Make sure the kids are settled. The last thing you want is your kids interrupting your romantic night together. Stick to your kids' bedtime routines to help them get settled so you and your partner can enjoy your bonding time together.
Put your phones on silent mode. Date night is all about enjoying your time together. Don’t ruin it by getting distracted by social media notifications.
Dress up. Or dress down. It depends on your activity really. If you want a romantic dinner for two at home, then you can dress up for the occasion. If you’re planning casual activities then wear your most comfy pajamas.
Set the mood. Dim the lights. Light a candle. Put on some soothing music to help set the mood for a romantic evening.
How to Plan and Prepare for Date Night at Home
Here's your date night prep checklist for a successful date night at home.
Set your schedule. Find a time that works best for both of you.
Come up with an awesome date night idea. Research and list down possible date night ideas at home and choose from your list.
Prep any materials you might need for your date night. Planning a romantic dinner? Don’t forget to buy the wine and food ingredients? Having a game night? Be sure you have your fave board games on hand. Settling for a movie night? Get the popcorn ready.
5 Date Night Ideas with a Child-Free Living Room
Here are easy date night ideas that you and your partner can enjoy while kids are asleep.
Pick a TV Show or Movie You Both Enjoy
Hit the couch and snuggle up with your partner while watching your favorite TV show or a movie together.
Have a Romantic Dinner at Home
This entails a bit more preparation but can be worth your while.
Prepare dinner together if you can. If you really can't find time to cook a special dinner, order some take out but set up your table and use your fancy plates and wares, and pretend you're in a fancy restaurant.
Have a Game Night
Dust off your old game boards and get ready for a competitive night with your significant other. Or you can buy games that are designed for couples.
Backyard Picnic and Stargazing
If you're expecting clear night skies, grab some snacks, lay out the picnic mat on your backyard and enjoy gazing the stars. Just bring the baby monitor with you.
Get intimate
Give each other massages, and then soak in a warm bubble bath. Light scented tea candles in the bathroom to help you relax and set the mood.
Conclusion: Date Night is Important For Your Relationship
Date nights are a great way to reconnect with your partner and strengthen your relationship. When you set a time for just the two of you together, you can have more meaningful conversations and interaction beyond the everyday mundane things.
There are lots of activities that you can do at home for your date night. They don't have to cost you much or take up too much of your time. What is important is that you enjoy your time with your partner and keep the spark alive.
